Many of us have probably looked in the mirror and seen all the things we don't like. For me, I see my wide-ish nose and my small eyes. I see my plain features and my chin, which I've always thought was big. I see my round face.
What I don't see when I look at myself are my long eyelashes, the twinkle in my eye, my clear skin. I don't see my dimples or any of the other nice things about myself. I make myself think that my imperfections make me ugly, and I know that I am not the only person who does this to themselves.
Let's work together to stop that, and see ourselves as beautiful! Because we are, all in our own ways. Even your imperfections or the things you don't like make you beautiful, and they make you unique. Screw everyone who says otherwise! They're wrong, and you know it. You always have to know that they're wrong.
So find some things about you that you don't normally see - look at yourself really closely if you have to. Maybe you don't like your eye color, but what about your lip color? Maybe you have naturally really red lips and you like that - or maybe you don't, but you like that too. There are so many things you can find that you like about yourself! Make a list if you need to.
Write down the things you don't like too. Realize what you can change and what you can't - then you need to learn how to live with the things you can't change.
But don't do this just because this article is telling you to. Do it because you want to. Ddo it for yourself, and no one else. And that's pretty much basic advice for any decision you make in life, in my opinion.
I know that my first post in a while is sort of sappy, and I apologize for that, but I was feeling pretty sappy today.
In a way, the title is self-explanatory. Yet it isn't. something about this blog is a paradox and I can't put my finger on what it is.
Wednesday, February 19, 2014
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Bratmobile
Lately I've been researching everything I can find about riot grrl, and in doing so I think I may have found my new obsession: Bratmobile.
Sunday, January 5, 2014
Banned Books: An Essay
(Note: this is an essay I whipped up for english class. It contains spoilers for John Steinbeck's of Mice and Men as well as Looking for Alaska by John Green and Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi. If you don't like spoilers, maybe you should read something else. Enjoy! )
In the past,
as well as recently, books have been banned on the grounds of being sexually
explicit, containing language that is considered to be offensive, or containing
topics or information not suitable for young audiences - or any audience
(American Library Association). This is done with good intention. The hearts of
the people behind these decisions are "in the right place," so to
speak. According to Noam Chomsky,
"if we don't believe in freedom of expression for people we despise, we
don't believe in it at all." With this in mind, as well as the grounds on
which all books have been banned, the justification of these grounds, and the
grounds on which John Steinbeck's Of Mice and Men has been challenged or
banned, it is clear that this book should never have been banned at all.
Thursday, December 19, 2013
Creativity is Found, not Forced.
If you have artist's block, or writer's block, or whoever's block, do not worry. It will come back to you. The trick is that you don't force yourself to be creativity, that just doesn't really work. Just by doing the things that you love will inspire you, and eventually you'll have so much creative muse you won't know what to do with all of it!
Vibes #1
There are a lot, and I mean A LOT, of things that inspire me. I see something and sort of interpret it however it is that I want to interpret it, and sort of create an image in my head of what sort of room it would be in or what sort of person would wear it and who that person would be friends with and talk to. It becomes my own, in a way. I just have to like it. So this is going to be a little series where I showcase images that I've collected that show things that inspire me in some way or another. It's more for my own personal reference, but maybe you can find some enjoyment in it as well!
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
Looking for Submissions!
Intrepid Magazine is currently looking for user-generated submissions. This can be anything from art to photographs to writing, or basically anything you want to share.
Oh, Canada
As you might know, I live in Canada. As much as I would love to travel, I don't think I'd really love to permanently live somewhere else. I'd definitely stay somewhere else for a few weeks or months, maybe even a year, but I don't think I would permanently stay in another country unless I really fell in love with the place.
Labels:
appreciation,
canada,
gratitude,
life,
personal,
reflections,
the world
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